There is no doubt in my mind that bullying is a huge problem today. Thee has always been an issue with it, but it seems as though the bullying is getting worse. Why? Well before we rally the troops, grab the pitch forks and torches, and start the witch hunt against video games...lets take a look at some information.
Bullying has been around, probably since man existed. You can even see it in the animal kingdom, they way animals interact with each other. But it is a way of life, everyone gets bullied. Yes, some more than others, but I am sorry, its going to happen. Now the degree to which someone is bullied varies. Most cases you are made fun of or the butt of a joke from time to time. THis seems like typical conversations and interactions, but is technically bullying. When someone is offended by an outward expression towards or against their person...that is an act of bullying.
But like I said, a majority of the cases are minimal and not really harmful, but instead help a person learn to overcome these things. There is also the larger scale ones, where it seems as though every day a person is the butt of jokes, they get made fun of or everyone goes after them. We can see it often times displayed in movies as the kid who gets his lunch money stolen or gets a wedgie over his head. Although this is a time of the past, people still say bullying is getting worse. With all the programs against it..how can it keep getting worse? The cause....is us..ALL OF US.
With the new advances in technology bullying is no longer personl. I know it sounds strange, but when you think about it...bullying is an interaction between 2 or a few members. However, with all of the social media portals and different hi-speed technologies, bullying can not only be personal...but now electronically done. 1 kid can be made fun of by countless different ways all be she wore a bad outfit, or he said something funny. And what's worse is that people are looking for ways out of the blame. Parents are the ones allowing kids access to these items, and these are the things that are taking up a child's time. The Internet is were kids are.
So why then the witch hunt against violence on tv and violent games? Yes kids should probably have limited access to this because it s not suitable for all ages, but realistically they're going to find it all on-line. Tests have even been done and psychologists have found that kids are not more aggressive because of the actions that they see on tv, or because of the actions that they do on a game console. WHat is causing them is the amount of drugs parents want to put there kids on to ignore the problem. If you look in a medicine cabinet today, you will see countless prescriptions for children that will keep there mood this way, and make them focus from this time to that time.
Therefor, THE MIND IS NOT LEARNING! All that the brain and body is learning is that they need something to fulfill those desires. they need to either take the pills to effectively fill this void, or the body does what it is biologically meant to do and create things on their. And the children often look for ways to simulate this feeling, and this is done through situations of hi emotional excitement. SOme are able to find appropriate sources to figure these thins out, however, many do not because they do not have the means to. as a result, many kids are bullied today.